by Sandie on April 15, 2011
Attitudinal healing is the process of letting go of painful feelings and thoughts which keep us stuck in emotional pain and guilt. As we release these fearful attitudes, we discover that we are able to live in the spontaneous, free, creative manner that is the essence of life.
When we are born, our mind may be likened to a clean slate upon which will be written the story of our life. We may have specific karma to work out from our other lives, or predestined lessons to experience. And each of us has our own innate personality style. Some people may be naturally more outgoing and gregarious, while others tend to be more shy and sensitive. Each personality has its own inherent strengths and weaknesses and during our life we have the opportunity to balance this.
As we grow, we accumulate many attitudes along the way which then become automatic, unconscious and habitual ways of reacting to our world. Many of our attitudes were formed early in life through learned patterns from our parents, teachers and other influential people. Others developed according to our individual responses to life’s circumstances.
The first step in healing our attitudes is to develop a conscious awareness of the thought process. What are we really thinking? What are the thoughts behind that feeling? As we develop a willingness to heal, we find we become more naturally attuned to what our thoughts are and where they came from. Each time we can identify, heal and then let go of a painful attitude, we experience becoming more connected with our true loving nature, our real self.
We can choose to relinquish thoughts of fear, conflict, judgement, anger, guilt, self-doubt, condemnation and vengeance, knowing the harmful effect they have upon us. Instead we can choose thoughts of love, peace, acceptance, compassion, self-loving and forgiveness. We realise that loving thoughts put us back in touch with our spiritual essence and have healing benefits to everyone
by Sandie on April 14, 2011
We all have 6 senses : Seeing (eyes); Hearing (ears); Touching (skin sensors); Smelling (nose); Tasting (tongue and mouth) and a Sixth Sense (mind) which is called intuition or psychic sense. This Sixth Sense can be extremely powerful and yet few people ever develop or use this valuable gift.
To become a psychic, one needs to learn to deliberately cause your brain to slow down and go into alpha or theta mode and to remain there without falling asleep. Simply put : if you slow down your brain frequency by closing your eyes or going into meditative state, you can use your mind and visualization abilities to develop your psychic awareness.
by Sandie on April 13, 2011
My days of hocus pocus was at its height in the mid 1990’s. I was a course junkie and energy works vampire. Tell me there is some happening in town and you’d bet I will be there.
One night I was invited to a spooky gathering. As we reached the house I was taken aback a little as the whole house was in darkness. The host came out to welcome our ‘entourage’ of 7 healing practitioners from the Damansara Jaya Healing Center. A little more time into the normal pleasantries, the session started with about 15 people or so.
Candles were lit as this evening’s session required some vision. The group was challenged by the host to float a needle. Ooops 1 down, 2 also down, 3, 4 and 5. According to the host, one needs to have very high energy levels to float a needle and it is no easy meat. I let out a small giggle and the host was not too pleased. He took it as a snigger. He challenged me to this feat which i politely declined. He jeered me of being afraid to let my buddies know my low energy levels. He intended to put me down. My buddies on the other hand cheered me onto it to prove Mr Host wrong.
I finally conceded to accept the challenge and Mr Host announced he will give me 3 tries. WOW! That was generous of him but I was not about to take advantage of my host’s generosity. I thanked him for his generosity and told him I only needed one attempt. Make It Or Break It!
I held the needle steadily between my thumb and index finger and ever so gently lowered it down onto the bowl of water. Yes, I made it.
Mr Host was not only impressed, he had very high regards for me from then on. I was invited by him to many special events meant only for ‘elite circle’ of the Spooks. I attended Ghost Busting (sending spirits to the Light), spiritual healing by different groups, past life regressions, rebirthing, past life readings, etc., all hosted by wives of expatriates living in Malaysia.
I have had my share of such exciting times. The Fine Wine has matured, its time to sit back and taste it. It was an era past, a chapter read. And now I intend to re-read the lines. Will be announcing the courses shortly.
by Sandie on April 13, 2011
In the past Reiki symbols were treated as sacred and secret but now it is widely published in books and all over the internet.
I personally feel that there is no secrecy to these symbosl as they are rendered ineffective without the necessary attunement, which empowers and activates these symbols but because of my training, till this day I still refer to them as Symbol 1, 2, 3 & 4,
In the first few years after I did my Reiki Mastership, I used to mentally draw the symbol once and silently chant the name of the symbol three times but over the many years of experimenting with these symbols, now I only need to visualise and “plaster” whichever symbol I intend to use over the person/object/situation that I am doing treatment on. Focus and intent become my key activity in my Reiki practice these days.
A share with all Reiki practitioners – make Reiki your way of life and observe the changes in your life.
by Sandie on April 11, 2011
Often times (or rather it has been happening more regularly these days) friends hear me say I am tired of my premature “retirement” and am looking into the possibility of “choong chut kong wu” (coming back into society or however one translates that). Our emotions are really our choice. We can alter potentially difficult or boring situations by experimenting ideas to renew our sense of enjoyment of ife. To be where you don’t choose to be and find something positive about it is far from boring.
Because of what we call boredom and to break out of it, I have of course lined up a string of travels for the whole year, toying with business ideas, writing a book (over-cooked idea), etc. All these, we are only creating dramas in our lives. After a while we get bored again and want something new. What we really want is a sense of freshness and excitement in our everyday lives.
Is this mid life crisis/post mid life crisis???? I wonder!! And this takes me back to the scene between the KL/Seremban highway some years back where I saw a sign “AYAM PENCEN”. How do these ‘retired chicken’ handle this boredom situation? I wonder again!!
